When traversing the turbulent sea that is the modern dating scene, men must arm themselves with a variety of masculine traits to attract the women they desire, and stay ahead of any competition that may come their way. If charisma and confidence are your ship and crew on the journey to becoming a charismatic man, … Read more
A packed restaurant must have good food. Sold out concert tickets are a sign of good music. And a man in a relationship or surrounded by women shows he’s sought-after. A five-star review is enough for you to click ‘buy now.’ All of these correlations stem from one source: preselection. Preselection is the natural human … Read more
1. You quickly release all that doesn’t serve you and move on. You don’t waste energy or time feeling sorry for yourself or others. 2. You don’t panic or lose ground when change occurs; you quickly accept and adapt. 3. You focus on staying positive and solution-focused. 4. You do no harm but take no shit. 5. You are … Read more
“Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone’s approval or to avoid disapproval.” ― Dr Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy Once I learnt I had so many nice-guy tendencies like millions, if not billions of men. I went on a personal mission to recover from … Read more
Inventing Anna became an overnight success for Netflix. The Tinder Swindler went viral and exposed the dating truth we face online, both for men and women. So what do they have in common? And why are we so drawn to them? Anna Sorokin (Anna Delvey) and Simon Leviev share a drive for an opulent lifestyle, … Read more
When it comes to attracting women and securing 2nd and 3rd dates, there isn’t a single trait men need more than charisma. Height, strength, looks are all good but without the glue that is charisma, they fall apart and leave a lacklustre impression on any woman you’re dating. So how does one increase this legendary … Read more
While our eyes can instantly identify an individual as charismatic, many men can’t seem to put the trait into words. And as a result of not having a clear definition of charisma, most men don’t even know where to start their journey into the life of a charismatic man… So what is charisma? And does … Read more
We’ve all heard the famous saying: “You can do anything to a woman except bore her?” When it comes to applying this saying, however, most men just toss it out the window… 95% of men never get the message and end up falling into the routines they read online: Starting conversations with bland openers, expecting … Read more
The other day, I got a message from one of my followers. He reached out to me out of desperation to solve his non-existent dating life. His DM read: “My dating life is over. I feel like I’m gonna be single forever because of COVID.” Naturally, I was curious to hear the story that led … Read more
We all struggle emotionally. I know I do and I know many other men do too. The thing with negative emotional energy cannot be contained, not for long anyway. It either leaks as bad habits or leads to unexpected self-sabotaging outbursts. The ‘nice-guy’ (syndrome for men who complain that they are unlucky in love despite … Read more