Going DEAF: How We Involuntarily Respond to Conflict and Trauma

DEAF is an involuntary Nerve Fracture (trauma) response to conflict or confrontation, leading to excessive behaviours such as Defending, Excusing, Attacking, or Fawning, driven by fears of rejection, loss of control, or shame. DEFEND: This reaction involves protecting oneself from perceived criticism or threats through defensiveness, over-explaining, or rationalising one’s actions. It is often seen … Read more

Trapped in Her World: The Invisible Struggle of Emotionally Fractured Men

In the complex world of human emotions, the concept of ‘Emotional Fracture’ plays a critical role, especially in the lives of many men. This fracture, deeply rooted in fears of abandonment, rejection, and feelings of unworthiness, doesn’t just influence a man’s emotions; it dictates where he ‘lives’ emotionally. Let’s explore this intriguing concept further, understanding … Read more

Spot the Spoiled-Brat Reflex (SBR): 7 Toxic Red Flags in Your Relationship

With a look into the intricate dynamics of relationships, particularly focusing on a phenomenon we’ve termed the ‘Spoiled-Brat Behavior Reflex’. This reflex manifests as a series of reactive, often toxic patterns that can subtly yet significantly erode the foundation of a relationship. It’s crucial to recognize these patterns, not just in our partners, but also … Read more

3 Signs Of Passive-Aggressive Nice-Guys and Girls

Passive-Aggressiveness, a spectrum is a weapon used by many people. It appears in relationships, parenting, work, or business, especially if you are extremely fractured (check out 5fractures.com). 3 SIGNS OF PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE: Indirect Communication: Passive-aggressive behaviour often involves expressing negative feelings indirectly rather than openly discussing them. For example, someone might make sarcastic comments, give … Read more

Behind the Veil: The Raw Truth About 7 Female Personality Disorders

We’ve all come across challenging women in our lives. Maybe it’s that friend who perpetually forgets her wallet or the colleague who’s always running late. We tolerate them because, deep down, they have good intentions. But then there’s a more complex category: women with personality disorders. Initially, these women can seem enchanting, drawing you in … Read more

Logan Paul’s Proposal to Nina Agdal: Hollywood Love Story or Nice-Guy Red-Flag Nightmare?

Logan Paul: The name probably rings a bell. You might know him as the influencer-turned-boxer or maybe as that YouTube sensation who’s dipped his toes into acting and wrestling. But here’s a new title he might not want on his résumé: ‘Nice-Guy Extraordinaire’. What’s a nice-guy? A ‘Nice-Guy’ is an angry, resentful man with low … Read more

Two Types of Love: Hard Work vs. Working Hard

There are two types of relationships 1️⃣ A relationship that is hard work.2️⃣ A relationship that works hard. In the early stages of dating, it’s crucial to recognise the trajectory of what you’re about to create. In the first type, we may find ourselves walking on eggshells, plagued by the constant fear of upsetting the … Read more