Faisal Khokhar 
I’m at the beach with my 12-year-old son. Red flags cover the beach and I’m tempted to swim. “Don’t be silly dad, it’s dangerous.” Then my son spent a few minutes telling me that just because it’s sunny and seems reasonably calm, the biggest danger is what we cannot see immediately. He informed me that … Read more
He’s been banned from social media. He’s been called the epitome of toxic masculinity, a misogynistic pri*k. His views on fat people, depression and women have poured outrage. Controversial social media superstar Andrew Tate will have you either love him or hate him. There is no middle ground and that’s the way he wants it; … Read more
What is a ‘Nice-Guy?’ “Nice-Guy” is a popular slang/term to describe a certain artchtype of a male. A nice guy is defined as someone who thinks they deserve to be in a relationship or have sex based solely on being nice. A ‘Nice-Guy’ is also a man with low self-esteem, inferior complex and dormant charisma … Read more
Have you ever heard a woman say “I want a real man” or “where have all the real men gone?” Do you find that offensive as a man? If you do, carry on reading… She might not be wrong; let me tell you why. The metamorphosis from caterpillar to butterfly is one of the most … Read more
Most dating coaches will tell you that you can get your dream woman even if you are out of shape, broke, needy etc… Well, chances are, you’ll attract your vibe, a broken woman. You see, a high-value woman will never entertain man who’d fall below a certain standard as much as a high-value man will … Read more
Every human has both Yin and Yang energies. Most men have higher innate masculine energy and most women have higher innate feminine energy. Our shell energy can change and mould over time depending on the environment, culture, beliefs and how we are raised. Society is damping boys’ masculine energy to make them softer, and women … Read more
Have you ever stayed late at work, spent time in a bar after work or even sat in the car rather than going home to your partner? You cannot be honest with a woman if you fear her emotions. If you are co-dependent and enmeshed, you’ll fear her. If you are an individuated man, you’ll … Read more
He can be savvy, sarcastic and obnoxious at times, but what makes Harvey Specter from the TV series Suits have awe-inspiring magnetism? Let’s find out Harvey Specter’s 9 Charisma Points: 1) STRONG SELF-IMAGE Harvey Specter has a strong self-image and sees himself as an incredibly capable, intelligent and high-status man. His independence allows him to … Read more
In my men’s group (MCM), one of our older and wiser tribe’s men, Mr D asked “how can we play out even more? How can we unblock and go beyond what we already do?” I felt that Mr D wanted to bring further bonding and camaraderie amongst the tribe. Immediately I remembered and after a … Read more
Ever received an awkward look because you laughed at the wrong time, tried too hard to fit in or made a comment out of context because you didn’t read the situation well? That was me many years ago. I know what it’s like to be socially awkward in large groups or new people. Secretly I … Read more