7 Signs She’s Wasting Your Time

I was so into this girl that I did anything for her. She made me happy and very frustrated that it eventually hit a breaking point. When a great woman came along, which was rare before doing the masculine charisma work, I did everything not to lose her. And everything I did to keep her … Read more

Lighten the f*ck up

I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more

What You Chase You Become

Men who constantly chase, think and dream of women and relationships become financially, emotionally, and time poor. They are also quick to feel lonely in or out of a relationship because they are so dependent on the external feeding their happiness and self-worth, they fail to tap into their internal power. Chasing isn’t the problem; … Read more

9 Hallmarks Of A Nice-Guy

If you suffer from the “NICE-GUY-SYNDROME”, you are likely to suffer from some, if not all, of these common issues I encounter in my coaching practice. Anger, resentment and anxiety are all too common in all NICE-GUYS. They play down their rage.  Nice-guys spend a lot of time coming across as nice and pleasing so … Read more

7 Signs You Have A Strong MindSet

1. You quickly release all that doesn’t serve you and move on. You don’t waste energy or time feeling sorry for yourself or others. 2. You don’t panic or lose ground when change occurs; you quickly accept and adapt. 3. You focus on staying positive and solution-focused. 4. You do no harm but take no shit.  5. You are … Read more

7 Ways Nice Guys Ruin Relationships

“Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone’s approval or to avoid disapproval.” ― Dr Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy Once I learnt I had so many nice-guy tendencies like millions, if not billions of men. I went on a personal mission to recover from … Read more