Logan Paul: The name probably rings a bell. You might know him as the influencer-turned-boxer or maybe as that YouTube sensation who’s dipped his toes into acting and wrestling.
But here’s a new title he might not want on his résumé: ‘Nice-Guy Extraordinaire’.
What’s a nice-guy? A ‘Nice-Guy’ is an angry, resentful man with low self-esteem, and an inferior complex who overcompensates with clingy and needy people-pleasing behaviour, over achieving, (being extra nice), especially towards women hoping that she’ll eventually sleep with him because he’s nice and not like the other jerks. Read more at: https://masculine.co/nice-guy/
He just popped the question to Nina Brohus Agdal. Sound familiar? She’s the Danish bombshell who’s strutted her stuff for Victoria’s Secret and Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition.
Seems like a match made in celebrity heaven, right?
Hold that thought.
After witnessing his YouTube proposal, I was equal parts baffled and enlightened. It was like seeing the textbook ‘Nice-Guy’ fractures come alive.
Look, I’m not just spouting off here. I’m a certified Nice-Guy Recovery Coach and an NLP Men’s Coach. So, here’s the deal: Logan’s dripping in the ‘Nice-Guy’ syndrome, and I’ve got the deets on why.
🚩 Love at first sight? No. He was infatuated (chemical addition, more below by Susan Anderson) and not in love. “I found her and I knew she was the one pretty much instantly in fact I literally knew it almost 12 hours after meeting her I can’t believe it I’m in love with her.”
🚩 He immediately projected into the future, a behaviour often exhibited by those grappling with deep-seated neediness. His proclamation, “Nina, if you’re watching this in the future, you are my wife,” exemplifies this tendency.
🚩 His happiness is deeply anchored in her, not within himself. What’s the fallout if she walks away or changes her feelings? He hasn’t mastered self-regulation and appears co-dependent on her for emotional fulfilment — a reminiscent pattern of relying on maternal figures. His words, “since the moment we met I have been the happiest I’ve ever been in my life,” echo sentiments typically felt during intense hormonal surges.
🚩 They become exclusive after just one date. His friends looked shocked. That’s fast attachment triggered by anxiety, fear of loss and abandonment. “exclusive yeah that night yeah, that was the first time I met her. That was like a week ago and that were exclusive”
🚩 His checklist might be questionable. She’s had over 50 past partners, with a track record of fleeting commitments and hopping from one liaison to the next. “She fits every single quality on the list.” Really, Logan? What’s on that list?
🚩 “We do everything together,” he boasted. But true relationships need balance. Constant togetherness can signal co-dependency, leading men to sideline their own needs, hobbies, and friends. Healthy? Doubtful.
🚩 Nice-guys go big to win over hearts. While confident men evaluate, nice-guys lean on grand gestures to impress. Logan’s flashy holidays and public proposal? All for show and clicks.
🚩 He’s highly emotional, leaning heavily into his feminine energy, especially evident during his proposal. He was sobbing like a weak man. At the beginning of a relationship that comes across as sweet and romantic. Later that will become unattractive and will repluse her.
🚩 He actually apologises to her during the marriage proposal for being such a ‘pussy,’ (his words) while she remains notably calm and collected. No tear Nina?
🚩 “She’s the girl of my dreams,” he gushes, admitting he never believed he’d find someone like her. By doing so, he’s embracing a more traditionally feminine narrative, elevating her to an unrealistic pedestal. “I didn’t know a human could be this incredible,” he says. Nice-guys often compartmentalise women: they’re either angels or demons. This lack of personal integration blinds them to seeing others in their complex entirety.
🚩 He said never wants to let her go. “Attachment is the root of all suffering,” Budda. Need I say more?
🚩 Both are addicted to the spotlight, suggesting a high drive for attention and validation, which is often associated with pronounced feminine energy. While strong masculine energy tends to value discretion and sees privacy as a means of protection and power, the overt feminine energy thrives on display and being in the public eye.
🚩 He’s all in, dropping six figures on a ring and lavishing her with luxury vacations. Is she drawn to him or the lavish lifestyle he offers? Genuine women value character above all. Yet, those addicted to emotional highs and drama often chase relentless excitement to stay engaged in a relationship.
Alright, here it comes, unfiltered and straight to the point:
Nina’s not just been around the block—she’s practically owned it. With over 50 big names under her belt, including the A-list likes of Leonardo DiCaprio, Joe Jonas, Max George, and more, she’s turned dating into a veritable sport. And oh boy, the trophy list is extensive.
Dillon Danis? That guy took it to the next level, tearing open the playbook on Twitter, essentially ridiculing Logan for picking someone from the “been-there-done-that” club. Brutal, but in this game, no holds are barred.
Men, hear me out.
The woman on your arm is more than just a partner; she’s a billboard ad of your choices, your standards. And let’s cut the crap and be real: for men, a woman’s past isn’t just a history—it’s a headline. Meanwhile, women? They’re scouting for a guy’s future potential. It’s the eternal dance between past and promise.
But let’s dive deeper into Nina’s resume. It screams of one word: promiscuity. Changing partners like seasonal fashion trends isn’t just a red flag—it’s a damn siren. Is she just in it for the fame game, using her looks and sensuality as currency in the celeb marketplace? Possibly. Time’s the only true teller.
I’ve walked that tightrope, dated the ‘popular’ ones. Here’s the reality check: they’re often all sizzle, no steak. Women like that? They weaponize their sexuality, spinning webs with it, ensnaring whichever high-profile prey wanders too close.
Look, women have the keys to the intimacy kingdom, with men lined up at the gates. When those keys are handed out like cheap candy, it devalues the whole system. Why? Because real value lies in what’s rare, what’s withheld.
So, Logan Paul, here’s the burning question: did you buy into a mirage? Are you just another notch on a bedpost that’s seen more action than a Hollywood blockbuster?
If the theories about quick attachments ring true, your love story might just be setting the stage for some prime-time drama.
Beware the pitfalls of promiscuity.
The red flags? They’re waving, man. Loud and clear.
SCIENCE OF TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS:
“Being with someone who is a challenge stimulates surges of catecholamines (adrenaline, norepinephrine), which, combined with your endogenous Opiates and other hormones, cause you to feel infatuated.
lnfatuation is a cocaine-like emotional high that intensifies your sexual feelings and medicates the rigors of intimacy. Caught up in the heat of passion (mediated by these . neurochemicals), two people just getting acquainted are able to be intimate without embarrassment.
To stay high, abandoholics keep seeking uncommitted partners. When someone comes along who is available, your body doesn’t produce enough catecholamines to support this high. You experience this as having no chemistry and go into withdrawal from your addiction. Unless you’re inebriated on love chemicals, you can’t tolerate the intimacy of a real relationship. So you run.
Like a junkie desperate for a love fix, you search for another lover who arouses just the right dose of fear to get you emotionally loaded. You’re in denial: When your body is attracted (addicted), it tells you you’re in love. When your partner becomes available, your love-stress hormones stop flowing. and you fall out of love.”
Susan Anderson
in the blinding spotlight of Hollywood, it’s crucial to discern genuine affection from potential pitfalls, and with these red flags in plain sight, only time will tell the true nature of Logan and Nina’s whirlwind romance.