Faisal Khokhar 
Men are lied to constantly. To get what you want, you have to be nice all the time. The truth is: Nice guys finish last. Nice guys struggle with dating, love and sex. Nice guys are the last to be chosen. Nice guys are angry and resentful. Does being nice work or does being effective … Read more
Imagine this. Your boss decides to outsource his dating life and wants to hire you to find a really great woman for him. He’s giving you three months for this project. After this period, he will discuss your findings and carry out a performance review. Your task is to date and screen for great women … Read more
1. You quickly release all that doesn’t serve you and move on. You don’t waste energy or time feeling sorry for yourself or others. 2. You don’t panic or lose ground when change occurs; you quickly accept and adapt. 3. You focus on staying positive and solution-focused. 4. You do no harm but take no shit. 5. You are … Read more
“Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone’s approval or to avoid disapproval.” ― Dr Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy Once I learnt I had so many nice-guy tendencies like millions, if not billions of men. I went on a personal mission to recover from … Read more
Inventing Anna became an overnight success for Netflix. The Tinder Swindler went viral and exposed the dating truth we face online, both for men and women. So what do they have in common? And why are we so drawn to them? Anna Sorokin (Anna Delvey) and Simon Leviev share a drive for an opulent lifestyle, … Read more
We all struggle emotionally. I know I do and I know many other men do too. The thing with negative emotional energy cannot be contained, not for long anyway. It either leaks as bad habits or leads to unexpected self-sabotaging outbursts. The ‘nice-guy’ (syndrome for men who complain that they are unlucky in love despite … Read more
Love him or loathe him, there is no denying that 007 James Bond oozes more masculine charisma than Oceans 11’s cast combined. I am focusing on the 7 charismatic traits that, when practised regularly, will make a man super charismatic in any situation. And yes, he has a dark side too, but don’t you? 001 … Read more
Young men need solid and frequent presence from elder, wiser and mature men to evolve, feel confident and be great men. I was late to the party to go from a boy to man psychology (in constant progress) as I didn’t have men around me that lead from the front to learn from. Most men … Read more