Faisal Khokhar 
If you’ve watched the series on Netflix Peaky Blinders, you cannot help but get magnetised by Thomas Shelby’s charisma. And you won’t be the only one. His self-assured self is potent because he carries the charismatics we recognise and aspire to strengthen. Whatever the causes, charismatic masculine traits are undeniably irresistible. Tommy distinguishes himself from … Read more
Here is an issue that slowly poisons him and her when nice-guys get into a relationship. As soon as anyone enters a relationship, a different set of dynamics are engaged and awakened. These dynamics are dormant when you are single, so you cannot work on them then. Nice-guys who haven’t done the work or who … Read more
I was so into this girl that I did anything for her. She made me happy and very frustrated that it eventually hit a breaking point. When a great woman came along, which was rare before doing the masculine charisma work, I did everything not to lose her. And everything I did to keep her … Read more
I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more
Too many men panic when their woman becomes overwhelmed and they don’t know how to handle the situation in a supportive manner. Instead, they instinctively do the opposite and make the situation worse. I know this first hand because I used to go into panic mode, and the fixer-guy was there quicker than any emergency … Read more
Men who constantly chase, think and dream of women and relationships become financially, emotionally, and time poor. They are also quick to feel lonely in or out of a relationship because they are so dependent on the external feeding their happiness and self-worth, they fail to tap into their internal power. Chasing isn’t the problem; … Read more
If you suffer from the “NICE-GUY-SYNDROME”, you are likely to suffer from some, if not all, of these common issues I encounter in my coaching practice. Anger, resentment and anxiety are all too common in all NICE-GUYS. They play down their rage. Nice-guys spend a lot of time coming across as nice and pleasing so … Read more
Men are lied to constantly. To get what you want, you have to be nice all the time. The truth is: Nice guys finish last. Nice guys struggle with dating, love and sex. Nice guys are the last to be chosen. Nice guys are angry and resentful. Does being nice work or does being effective … Read more
Imagine this. Your boss decides to outsource his dating life and wants to hire you to find a really great woman for him. He’s giving you three months for this project. After this period, he will discuss your findings and carry out a performance review. Your task is to date and screen for great women … Read more