Masculinity

Sorry, I don’t want to write this… …but this is for all the men who give up easily; you should know a few things. You’ve probably heard of the term ‘nice-guy,’ if you haven’t, you’ll recognise the obvious characteristics. He’s the one with the polite manners and biggest smile, soft, gentle and wouldn’t hurt a … Read more

This is to all the amazing women who bring colour to our masculine world with your feminine ways that leave us in awe. I love how you giggle and make cute noises with your light-hearted energy. I love how you grace the room with your silky elegance, radiant beauty and tender touch. I love your … Read more

You know how all boys have a hero? A figure who’s got special powers, fights the baddies, rescues the world and wins the girl…? Well, I got to meet one of my heroes.  Now, he doesn’t have a cape, but he does have a slick goatee and his name on a book that’s probably changed millions … Read more

Here are 8 signs that a man may have low masculine energy which seriously kills attraction. It’s important to recognize these behaviours, as they can hold us back from creating the relationship we desire. I was raised in a feminine environment because I was surrounded by women and did not have a strong masculine influence … Read more

If there is one thing most nice-guys (aka people pleasers) suffer from is that their thinking is crap, yes, utter nonsense most of the time. It’s full of shame, regret, bitterness, judgement, obsession and constant replaying of past mistakes or fantasies. One of the most troubling aspects of this mind is its ability to turn … Read more

What is a ‘Nice-Guy?’ “Nice-Guy” is a popular slang/term to describe a certain artchtype of a male. A nice guy is defined as someone who thinks they deserve to be in a relationship or have sex based solely on being nice. A ‘Nice-Guy’ is also a man with low self-esteem, inferior complex and dormant charisma … Read more

Have you ever heard a woman say “I want a real man” or “where have all the real men gone?” Do you find that offensive as a man? If you do, carry on reading… She might not be wrong; let me tell you why. The metamorphosis from caterpillar to butterfly is one of the most … Read more

Have you ever stayed late at work, spent time in a bar after work or even sat in the car rather than going home to your partner? You cannot be honest with a woman if you fear her emotions. If you are co-dependent and enmeshed, you’ll fear her. If you are an individuated man, you’ll … Read more

In my men’s group (MCM), one of our older and wiser tribe’s men, Mr D asked “how can we play out even more? How can we unblock and go beyond what we already do?” I felt that Mr D wanted to bring further bonding and camaraderie amongst the tribe. Immediately I remembered and after a … Read more