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“Masculine Frame Control (MFC)” is the final frontier for men to conquer, putting them in the 1% of high-value men. You nail this most of the time; you’ll skyrocket your mature self to levels that’ll make you super charismatic and earn you undeniable respect and admiration. If you are anxious, impulsive or distracted easily, you … Read more
So for the past 6 months, I have been training for tough mudder 15k. For those of you who are not familiar, it’s a 15km run with obstacles of a muddy nature. It not only tests your body but also your mind to overcome your fear of getting electrocuted, dunked in an ice bath, falling … Read more
When it came to reconditioning myself away from the nice guy mentality, it took years, but it only took a moment for something to switch in my head. It’s what they call an epiphany: When a great truth or insight is revealed to you and your mind changes with that perspective. Like Jules (Samuel L … Read more
If you’ve watched the series on Netflix Peaky Blinders, you cannot help but get magnetised by Thomas Shelby’s charisma. And you won’t be the only one. His self-assured self is potent because he carries the charismatics we recognise and aspire to strengthen. Whatever the causes, charismatic masculine traits are undeniably irresistible. Tommy distinguishes himself from … Read more
I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more
Too many men panic when their woman becomes overwhelmed and they don’t know how to handle the situation in a supportive manner. Instead, they instinctively do the opposite and make the situation worse. I know this first hand because I used to go into panic mode, and the fixer-guy was there quicker than any emergency … Read more
There is a masculinity CRISIS! Men around the world are a former shell of what they once were… Whether it’s from the mysterious drop in the average male grip strength to the epidemic of nice-guys that have infested the dating market, men aren’t what they used to be. Men around the world are more confused … Read more
Men who constantly chase, think and dream of women and relationships become financially, emotionally, and time poor. They are also quick to feel lonely in or out of a relationship because they are so dependent on the external feeding their happiness and self-worth, they fail to tap into their internal power. Chasing isn’t the problem; … Read more
In recent years there has been an active push against the traditional male. Masculinity is shamed. Men speaking their mind is “Male privilege” And men are given the worst relationship advice imaginable: “Just be you” “If you wait, the right one will show up for you” “Women love emotional guys”’ After being fed these lies … Read more
If you suffer from the “NICE-GUY-SYNDROME”, you are likely to suffer from some, if not all, of these common issues I encounter in my coaching practice. Anger, resentment and anxiety are all too common in all NICE-GUYS. They play down their rage. Nice-guys spend a lot of time coming across as nice and pleasing so … Read more