Attraction

1️⃣ Don’t go overboard. She would rather you make many small gestures throughout the year instead of one big gesture on essential dates and be dry all other times. 2️⃣ Pay attention to details. Notice what she likes and surprise her with it. 3️⃣ Valentine’s day is a day where every aspect of your date … Read more

Living well is the best revenge. ❶ Accept, let go and move on with grace❷ Take time to heal, grow and work on being BETTER, not BITTER❸ Workout regularly, eat healthily and get outdoors more often❹ Update your style and de-clutter your life❺ Take up new hobbies, meet new people and travel more❻ Read daily, … Read more

This weekend I was a plus one for a wedding by the coast, it reminded me of one MAJOR rule for conversation flow. As I joined for the evening reception, I was a little anxious to meet new people…. Because of lockdowns, restrictions and being a full-time dad, I’ve not been going out much as … Read more

Love bombing is characterised by excessive attention, admiration, and affection with the goal to make the recipient feel dependent and obligated to that person,” Sasha Jackson, therapist. ❶ They lavish you with gifts❷ They can’t stop complimenting you❸ They bombard you with phone calls and texts❹ They demand your undivided attention and easily overwhelm you❺ … Read more

A divorce or breakup is agonising because we experience immediate abandonment and uncertainty. Abandonment is hard wired to be excruciatingly painful, reminding us not to leave babies unattended or wander off from the tribe, safety in numbers. It can be extra hard for men because they don’t really have the training to process strong emotions … Read more

The world needs thinkers and action takers, otherwise, there will be chaos.  But in the world of overthinkers, there is chaos, worry, and stagnation. These three aspects will instantly kill any changes in building any romantic connections. ❶ You spend considerable time second-guessing yourself, analysing and data gathering to avoid mistakes than to take bold … Read more

You’ve matched online and are excited that you’ve secured the date. On the date, she looks stunning, you both are having fun and the conversation is flowing. You have a great feeling about her. She… …could be the one you think to yourself. On this high… …you excitedly text her after the date to express … Read more