7 Signs Of Chronic Codependency

We are all co-dependent in some way. As kids, we needed our parents or carers to provide us with love and protection. As adults, we need friends, family, and romantic partners to fulfil our connection needs. Even the loners among us rely on our jobs, our dogs, and our Netflix subscriptions not to feel lonely. … Read more

Red Flags and Nice-Guys When Dating

Nice-Guys and Red Flags

I’m at the beach with my 12-year-old son. Red flags cover the beach and I’m tempted to swim. “Don’t be silly dad, it’s dangerous.” Then my son spent a few minutes telling me that just because it’s sunny and seems reasonably calm, the biggest danger is what we cannot see immediately. He informed me that … Read more

No More Mr Nice Guy – Ultimate Guide & Recovery

What is a ‘Nice-Guy?’ “Nice-Guy” is a popular slang/term to describe a certain artchtype of a male. A nice guy is defined as someone who thinks they deserve to be in a relationship or have sex based solely on being nice. A ‘Nice-Guy’ is also a man with low self-esteem, inferior complex and dormant charisma … Read more

“I Want A Real Man” She Says…

“I Want A Real Man” She Says

Have you ever heard a woman say “I want a real man” or “where have all the real men gone?” Do you find that offensive as a man? If you do, carry on reading… She might not be wrong; let me tell you why. The metamorphosis from caterpillar to butterfly is one of the most … Read more

Masculine and Feminine Energy Chart

Masculine and Feminine Energy Chart

Every human has both Yin and Yang energies. Most men have higher innate masculine energy and most women have higher innate feminine energy. Our shell energy can change and mould over time depending on the environment, culture, beliefs and how we are raised. Society is damping boys’ masculine energy to make them softer, and women … Read more

Men Who Fear Women’s Emotions

Have you ever stayed late at work, spent time in a bar after work or even sat in the car rather than going home to your partner? You cannot be honest with a woman if you fear her emotions. If you are co-dependent and enmeshed, you’ll fear her. If you are an individuated man, you’ll … Read more

9 Ways To Be Unapologetically Charismatic Like Harvey Specter

He can be savvy, sarcastic and obnoxious at times, but what makes  Harvey Specter from the TV series Suits have awe-inspiring magnetism? Let’s find out Harvey Specter’s 9 Charisma Points: 1) STRONG SELF-IMAGE Harvey Specter has a strong self-image and sees himself as an incredibly capable, intelligent and high-status man.  His independence allows him to … Read more