Most dating coaches will tell you that you can get your dream woman even if you are out of shape, broke, needy etc… Well, chances are, you’ll attract your vibe, a broken woman.
You see, a high-value woman will never entertain man who’d fall below a certain standard as much as a high-value man will never entertain a low-value woman.
So, it begs the question, are you date-ready to begin something healthy?
Most of us are not because it’s not a skill we are taught early on.
It will be bloody if you go into a battlefield untrained and inexperienced.
It’s the same when it comes to dating; you blame dating apps and the women you select when sh*t hits the fan, but forget to really look into what’s going on.
There are some skills that need to be worked on before dating, and others can only be worked on within a relationship.
If you struggle to attract the type of woman you want, that’s a YOU problem that needs to be seriously addressed, otherwise, you’ll pass life in despair and loneliness.
You’ll despise all those who are getting the results you dream of.
You don’t need to be perfect, no one is, but if you are high on the scale of the list below, you’ll either fail to attract or keep the woman you desire:
- Broke
- Out of shape
- Resentful
- Lazy
- Fearful
- Desperate
- Insecure
- Bad Selector
- Bad Ender
What are the things you can do to address the above issues?
The first step is to take ownership and become self-aware of the issues. Without acceptance, there is no responsibility for change to occur.
Then, get some theory.
After theory, put it into practice and keep practising until the results change. This is where 99% of people fail.
Nice-guys (the immature self) don’t finish the prescribed course, they jump from one thing to another.
Before you go out dating, get date ready.