So for the past 6 months, I have been training for tough mudder 15k. For those of you who are not familiar, it’s a 15km run with obstacles of a muddy nature. It not only tests your body but also your mind to overcome your fear of getting electrocuted, dunked in an ice bath, falling … Read more
Women crave and love to be touched. And I’m not just talking about sex or foreplay; I mean the non-physical touch that drives her crazy for you. Mother nature has equipped us with the know-how on how to procreate. A caveman doesn’t need to watch a YouTube video on where to stick his wand to … Read more
Does she like me? Does she not? Every man has asked himself these questions at least a million times because female attraction signals to most men are as clear as having a conversation underwater. Most nice-guys need over 80% certainty that she is interested in him before making any advances. They don’t want the risk … Read more
You know when you are really enjoying your first date and already in your head you are thinking, it’s going well and I can’t wait for the second date? And then the next day, she texts: “Thank you for the wonderful date, I really enjoyed it and you are a great guy. After thinking about … Read more
When it came to reconditioning myself away from the nice guy mentality, it took years, but it only took a moment for something to switch in my head. It’s what they call an epiphany: When a great truth or insight is revealed to you and your mind changes with that perspective. Like Jules (Samuel L … Read more
Ever had a friend who every six months say: 1️⃣ “I Found The One” 2️⃣ “This Could Be It” 3️⃣ “It Feels Very Different” 4️⃣ “I Love Her” 5️⃣ “I Am Going To Marry Her” 6️⃣ “I’ve Known Her Forever” 7️⃣ “It Was Love At First Sight” 8️⃣ “We Have Intense Chemistry” 9️⃣ “It’s Meant … Read more
If you’ve watched the series on Netflix Peaky Blinders, you cannot help but get magnetised by Thomas Shelby’s charisma. And you won’t be the only one. His self-assured self is potent because he carries the charismatics we recognise and aspire to strengthen. Whatever the causes, charismatic masculine traits are undeniably irresistible. Tommy distinguishes himself from … Read more
Here is an issue that slowly poisons him and her when nice-guys get into a relationship. As soon as anyone enters a relationship, a different set of dynamics are engaged and awakened. These dynamics are dormant when you are single, so you cannot work on them then. Nice-guys who haven’t done the work or who … Read more
I was so into this girl that I did anything for her. She made me happy and very frustrated that it eventually hit a breaking point. When a great woman came along, which was rare before doing the masculine charisma work, I did everything not to lose her. And everything I did to keep her … Read more
I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more