Here is an issue that slowly poisons him and her when nice-guys get into a relationship. As soon as anyone enters a relationship, a different set of dynamics are engaged and awakened. These dynamics are dormant when you are single, so you cannot work on them then. Nice-guys who haven’t done the work or who … Read more
Sometimes in life, we get stuck. At some stage of their lives, most people will encounter a roadblock that they cannot pass, whether it is an illness, insecurity, or doubt. Some of us can get stuck in life for only a short period, or some can get stuck for decades. If you’re stuck in an … Read more
In recent years there has been an active push against the traditional male. Masculinity is shamed. Men speaking their mind is “Male privilege” And men are given the worst relationship advice imaginable: “Just be you” “If you wait, the right one will show up for you” “Women love emotional guys”’ After being fed these lies … Read more
If you suffer from the “NICE-GUY-SYNDROME”, you are likely to suffer from some, if not all, of these common issues I encounter in my coaching practice. Anger, resentment and anxiety are all too common in all NICE-GUYS. They play down their rage. Nice-guys spend a lot of time coming across as nice and pleasing so … Read more
Men are lied to constantly. To get what you want, you have to be nice all the time. The truth is: Nice guys finish last. Nice guys struggle with dating, love and sex. Nice guys are the last to be chosen. Nice guys are angry and resentful. Does being nice work or does being effective … Read more
“Just about everything a Nice Guy does is consciously or unconsciously calculated to gain someone’s approval or to avoid disapproval.” ― Dr Robert A. Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy Once I learnt I had so many nice-guy tendencies like millions, if not billions of men. I went on a personal mission to recover from … Read more
We’ve all heard the famous saying: “You can do anything to a woman except bore her?” When it comes to applying this saying, however, most men just toss it out the window… 95% of men never get the message and end up falling into the routines they read online: Starting conversations with bland openers, expecting … Read more
The other day, I got a message from one of my followers. He reached out to me out of desperation to solve his non-existent dating life. His DM read: “My dating life is over. I feel like I’m gonna be single forever because of COVID.” Naturally, I was curious to hear the story that led … Read more
We all struggle emotionally. I know I do and I know many other men do too. The thing with negative emotional energy cannot be contained, not for long anyway. It either leaks as bad habits or leads to unexpected self-sabotaging outbursts. The ‘nice-guy’ (syndrome for men who complain that they are unlucky in love despite … Read more
If you cannot date the attractive women you desire or had a tough breakup where you stayed too long; chances are you suffer from the “nice-guy-syndrome.” If you’ve read the book “NO MORE MR NICE GUY” you’ll know where I am coming from. ‘Nice-guys’ have endless struggles with dating, relationships and life because they are … Read more