If you’ve watched the series on Netflix Peaky Blinders, you cannot help but get magnetised by Thomas Shelby’s charisma. And you won’t be the only one. His self-assured self is potent because he carries the charismatics we recognise and aspire to strengthen. Whatever the causes, charismatic masculine traits are undeniably irresistible. Tommy distinguishes himself from … Read more
Sometimes in life, we get stuck. At some stage of their lives, most people will encounter a roadblock that they cannot pass, whether it is an illness, insecurity, or doubt. Some of us can get stuck in life for only a short period, or some can get stuck for decades. If you’re stuck in an … Read more
I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more
Too many men panic when their woman becomes overwhelmed and they don’t know how to handle the situation in a supportive manner. Instead, they instinctively do the opposite and make the situation worse. I know this first hand because I used to go into panic mode, and the fixer-guy was there quicker than any emergency … Read more
There is a masculinity CRISIS! Men around the world are a former shell of what they once were… Whether it’s from the mysterious drop in the average male grip strength to the epidemic of nice-guys that have infested the dating market, men aren’t what they used to be. Men around the world are more confused … Read more
Men who constantly chase, think and dream of women and relationships become financially, emotionally, and time poor. They are also quick to feel lonely in or out of a relationship because they are so dependent on the external feeding their happiness and self-worth, they fail to tap into their internal power. Chasing isn’t the problem; … Read more
Men are lied to constantly. To get what you want, you have to be nice all the time. The truth is: Nice guys finish last. Nice guys struggle with dating, love and sex. Nice guys are the last to be chosen. Nice guys are angry and resentful. Does being nice work or does being effective … Read more
When traversing the turbulent sea that is the modern dating scene, men must arm themselves with a variety of masculine traits to attract the women they desire, and stay ahead of any competition that may come their way. If charisma and confidence are your ship and crew on the journey to becoming a charismatic man, … Read more
A packed restaurant must have good food. Sold out concert tickets are a sign of good music. And a man in a relationship or surrounded by women shows he’s sought-after. A five-star review is enough for you to click ‘buy now.’ All of these correlations stem from one source: preselection. Preselection is the natural human … Read more
1. You quickly release all that doesn’t serve you and move on. You don’t waste energy or time feeling sorry for yourself or others. 2. You don’t panic or lose ground when change occurs; you quickly accept and adapt. 3. You focus on staying positive and solution-focused. 4. You do no harm but take no shit.  5. You are … Read more