I hopped on a free coaching call today with Faisal about Masculine Charisma and becoming a higher-value man. The reason for my doing this has been the fact that I’m fed-up with how I’ve comported myself for the last few years. I’ve had crippling low self-worth and social anxiety, plus fear of rejection and even, … Read more
Have you ever heard a woman say “I want a real man” or “where have all the real men gone?” Do you find that offensive as a man? If you do, carry on reading… She might not be wrong; let me tell you why. The metamorphosis from caterpillar to butterfly is one of the most … Read more
Have you ever stayed late at work, spent time in a bar after work or even sat in the car rather than going home to your partner? You cannot be honest with a woman if you fear her emotions. If you are co-dependent and enmeshed, you’ll fear her. If you are an individuated man, you’ll … Read more
In my men’s group (MCM), one of our older and wiser tribe’s men, Mr D asked “how can we play out even more? How can we unblock and go beyond what we already do?” I felt that Mr D wanted to bring further bonding and camaraderie amongst the tribe. Immediately I remembered and after a … Read more
“Masculine Frame Control (MFC)” is the final frontier for men to conquer, putting them in the 1% of high-value men. You nail this most of the time; you’ll skyrocket your mature self to levels that’ll make you super charismatic and earn you undeniable respect and admiration. If you are anxious, impulsive or distracted easily, you … Read more
So for the past 6 months, I have been training for tough mudder 15k. For those of you who are not familiar, it’s a 15km run with obstacles of a muddy nature. It not only tests your body but also your mind to overcome your fear of getting electrocuted, dunked in an ice bath, falling … Read more
If you’ve watched the series on Netflix Peaky Blinders, you cannot help but get magnetised by Thomas Shelby’s charisma. And you won’t be the only one. His self-assured self is potent because he carries the charismatics we recognise and aspire to strengthen. Whatever the causes, charismatic masculine traits are undeniably irresistible. Tommy distinguishes himself from … Read more
Sometimes in life, we get stuck. At some stage of their lives, most people will encounter a roadblock that they cannot pass, whether it is an illness, insecurity, or doubt. Some of us can get stuck in life for only a short period, or some can get stuck for decades. If you’re stuck in an … Read more
I love personal growth, it’s paramount for us to evolve, grow and heal our wounds so we help the next generation to suffer less. Our intentions are very noble. But our methods can be very questionable. The paradox of when you are in this world, there is a lot of focus on the issues that … Read more
Too many men panic when their woman becomes overwhelmed and they don’t know how to handle the situation in a supportive manner. Instead, they instinctively do the opposite and make the situation worse. I know this first hand because I used to go into panic mode, and the fixer-guy was there quicker than any emergency … Read more