I’m at the beach with my 12-year-old son. Red flags cover the beach and I’m tempted to swim. “Don’t be silly dad, it’s dangerous.” Then my son spent a few minutes telling me that just because it’s sunny and seems reasonably calm, the biggest danger is what we cannot see immediately. He informed me that … Read more
Most dating coaches will tell you that you can get your dream woman even if you are out of shape, broke, needy etc… Well, chances are, you’ll attract your vibe, a broken woman. You see, a high-value woman will never entertain man who’d fall below a certain standard as much as a high-value man will … Read more
I’m sat alone in a large bar in the west end of Glasgow with a beer in one hand. I’m checking the time again. My date is late and my mind is doing backflips. Did I get the wrong place? Did I get the wrong time? Maybe she changed her mind and stood me up? … Read more
Every human has both Yin and Yang energies. Most men have higher innate masculine energy and most women have higher innate feminine energy. Our shell energy can change and mould over time depending on the environment, culture, beliefs and how we are raised. Society is damping boys’ masculine energy to make them softer, and women … Read more
Ever received an awkward look because you laughed at the wrong time, tried too hard to fit in or made a comment out of context because you didn’t read the situation well? That was me many years ago. I know what it’s like to be socially awkward in large groups or new people. Secretly I … Read more
“What do women want?” is the wrong question. The better question is “what do women frequently respond to?” They say women are complicated and men are simple. What a load of clobbers. The bullshit narrative is to keep men weak and disempowered. Thanks to psychology, research and infield experience, women are not a mystery anymore. … Read more
She: “You are such a lovely guy. I don’t want to ruin what we have. Let’s stay friends.” Nice-guy: “Okay, you are right. I don’t want to ruin what we have. You mean a lot to me.” Masculine Man: “No thank you, I have plenty of friends.” The nice-guy relinquishes his masculine power and dignity … Read more
Women crave and love to be touched. And I’m not just talking about sex or foreplay; I mean the non-physical touch that drives her crazy for you. Mother nature has equipped us with the know-how on how to procreate. A caveman doesn’t need to watch a YouTube video on where to stick his wand to … Read more
Does she like me? Does she not? Every man has asked himself these questions at least a million times because female attraction signals to most men are as clear as having a conversation underwater. Most nice-guys need over 80% certainty that she is interested in him before making any advances. They don’t want the risk … Read more
You know when you are really enjoying your first date and already in your head you are thinking, it’s going well and I can’t wait for the second date? And then the next day, she texts: “Thank you for the wonderful date, I really enjoyed it and you are a great guy. After thinking about … Read more